tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544481594416463867.post3420131817983879767..comments2023-05-30T10:10:54.202-03:00Comments on Journey to Thin. Year 2 - The Journey Continues.: DeflatedCandace MacPhersonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12042952981039797947noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544481594416463867.post-40340303510296828302008-02-26T02:14:00.000-04:002008-02-26T02:14:00.000-04:00i can totally relate! everyone i know expects me t...i can totally relate! everyone i know expects me to be the "desserts" girl and eat dessert until the cows come home. well, the other day i had a similar (to your wine) incident with my mom over cake. it was HARD. it's so hard to say no already. but to have to fight someone else. we want to be kind and please people. what can we do.<BR/><BR/>you SHOULD be respected at the first no. it's just hard to get some people to undertand that no really means NO. <BR/><BR/>GOOD FOR YOU! have that talk and then let it be. you'll be glad you did!! <BR/><BR/>you're awesome!!annahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16946981427557188592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544481594416463867.post-83960263039601429972008-02-25T22:34:00.000-04:002008-02-25T22:34:00.000-04:00Sorry to hear about the situation. How true is tha...Sorry to hear about the situation. How true is that; that it's always more than the surface stuff. Hopefully you can talk to hubby and get on your page. Really it should have been no big deal you saying no...<BR/>Chin up :~)tallmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17810774408415789471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544481594416463867.post-61284642797484636932008-02-25T15:12:00.000-04:002008-02-25T15:12:00.000-04:00I know you feel sad and deflated about this. But r...I know you feel sad and deflated about this. But reading your post made me want to cheer and clap for you! This is a great post. It feels so perfect to have identified the problem, how it made you feel, and are taking steps to address it. Well done! With this kind of approach there is nothing you can't do!Randihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16447302746208359404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544481594416463867.post-86975753775992928312008-02-25T15:11:00.000-04:002008-02-25T15:11:00.000-04:00How frustrating. I'm sorry. It took YEARS for my...How frustrating. I'm sorry. <BR/><BR/>It took YEARS for my husband to be on the same page as me from a fitness perspective. There were many, many talks. My fingers are crossed that this one will do the trick for you guys.HappyBlogChickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04877638142823386746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544481594416463867.post-11798206813066194102008-02-25T10:35:00.000-04:002008-02-25T10:35:00.000-04:00i think it's great that you want to show this post...i think it's great that you want to show this post to your hubby but even better - talk to him about it as well... guys just have a tendency to do things w/out thinking, so i'm sure the wine-thing wasn't meant to derail you but it's important for him to know how you're feeling regardless... once he understands how important this weightloss effort is to you, i would hope he'd be more supportive... :o)JODIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02805275154320491839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5544481594416463867.post-60958476330777141012008-02-25T10:10:00.000-04:002008-02-25T10:10:00.000-04:00Ugh. I know exactly what you mean. Esecially when ...Ugh. I know exactly what you mean. Esecially when you tell yourself you don't need it and then you give in - for whatever reason. You just feel disappointed in yourself. I find too with some people (My MIL especially) she will not take no for an swer or she'll ask me 3 times if I want dessert and if I say no it's "Well, why don't you want dessert, are you SURE you don't want dessert" and honestly for the most part I almost feel like she is trying to sabotage my good healthy eating because she's been gaining weight and I've been losing. She's always been way smaller than me so I can tell it annoys her a little.<BR/><BR/>With your hubby though, I would definitely talk it out with him and tell him exactly how you feel. I'm sure he'll understand.Carolynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09505002686409626270noreply@blogger.com